If you’ve ever said yes when you wanted to say no, put off a financial decision because it felt “too late,” or made a big purchase just to silence a little voice inside your head… you’re not alone. We all have similar stories. Guilt and fear are powerful motivators. But they’re rarely good guides. In financial planning, they often show up disguised as urgency or obligation: “I should have started saving earlier.” “I have to invest […]
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Alignment over excess
When we talk about happiness with our family, friends and colleagues, it’s easy to fall into the trap of assuming that more is always better: more money, more options, more security, more stuff. But the truth is far gentler and far more powerful. Happiness doesn’t come from having more. It comes from being aligned. That means alignment between our values and our goals. Between priorities and lifestyle. Between what we’re chasing and what actually matters. Whilst […]
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Here’s how strong financial plans really work… It’s so easy to fall into the trap of talking about financial plans as if they’re written in stone, neatly laid out, precise, and permanent. But in reality, the best financial plans are anything but rigid. They’re designed not just for ideal scenarios, but for real life, which is why they need to be robust enough to weather market turbulence, flexible enough to adapt to personal changes, and practical […]
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It hardly bears repeating, but money is emotional! No matter how hard we try, we inevitably move from scanning spreadsheets to stressing about security, survival, self-worth, and status. So when something goes wrong, a job loss, a business failure, a debt spiral, or a traumatic period of being “flat broke” — the impact isn’t just practical. It can be deeply personal. Post-Traumatic Broke Syndrome, or PTBS, is a term gaining traction to describe the lingering psychological […]
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When was the last time you just… stopped? Not to check your phone. Not to plan your next move. Not to squeeze in one more errand or scan your to-do list. Just… stopped. Stillness can feel foreign these days, like something reserved for a retreat or a rare weekend escape. But more than ever, stillness is essential. It’s not a luxury or an indulgence. It’s one of the most powerful tools we have to reconnect with […]
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Have you ever set a goal, or set of goals for yourself? And… when life changed and those goals were no longer relevant or attainable, what did you do? One of the most underrated challenges in financial and life planning isn’t setting goals… it’s managing them when life changes! We’re often told to set smart, measurable goals and stick to them. And that works… until life throws you a curveball. A new job. A health scare. […]
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A cancer diagnosis is more than a medical event. It touches every part of life; physically, emotionally, spiritually, relationally… and financially. No one wants to think about money when facing something as deeply personal and life-altering as this. But the financial implications of cancer are very real, and often, they catch people off guard. The truth is, the cost of cancer goes far beyond treatment. It includes loss of income, travel to medical appointments, home adjustments, […]
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Wealth doesn’t happen in a moment. It’s easy to think otherwise when social media is filled with crypto booms, overnight stock picks, and stories of windfalls that seem to turn ordinary people into millionaires. But behind most real, lasting wealth is something far less flashy: time, patience, and consistency. In his book Stocks for the Long Run, economist Jeremy Siegel studied more than 200 years of investment history. His research shows that, despite market crashes, recessions, […]
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Is it tough to talk about retirement because we haven’t saved enough… or because we’re not comfortable with getting older? It’s an insightful question and helps us begin to understand why so many people delay the conversation altogether. Retirement hesitancy sits on two sides of the same coin: financial readiness and emotional readiness. On the one hand, there’s the maths of it all. Rising costs, economic uncertainty, and shaky savings play a big role. Research shows […]
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When most people hear the word “Will,” they think of paperwork, lawyers, or uncomfortable conversations about money. But a Will isn’t just a legal document. It’s an emotional anchor and a way of caring for the people you love most when you’re no longer able to. A Will says: “I thought about you. I prepared for you. I wanted to make things easier for you.” Without one, the people left behind are often burdened with uncertainty. […]
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