“Authenticity is when you say and do the things you actually believe.”
– Simon Sinek
Most of life’s problems occur when we don’t communicate properly. It’s not that we don’t communicate… it’s that our communication is so heavily filtered that it can become disingenuous. We try hard to fit into the moulds and expectations of others, that we lose touch with our authentic selves.
We need to be encouraged to reconnect with authenticity in a way that helps us improve how we feel about ourselves. This shifts our view of our lives, giving us a chance to create more happiness in our lives.
You build meaningful relationships and manage change better
People who stay in your life get to like and know the real you when you’re able to be authentic. Your relationships become more fulfilling, your family and friends get to know the real you, and aren’t faced with someone who is simply looking for their approval.
The love and affection they will be willing to reciprocate and invest in your relationship gets directed at you and not just a perception of who you want them to think you are.
This is a powerful space for navigating change in your life. Surrounding yourself with authentic relationships means that you will have people who you can call upon for help, support and encouragement as you equip yourself to cope with life’s constant change. Not only will you be able to say and do the things you actually believe, but you will be lifted up by people who believe the same!
You discover and promote your self-worth
This journey of authentic conversation with yourself is not just about building better relationships with others, but intrinsically you will develop a more positive sense of self-value and self-worth, improving your confidence, self-esteem as well as self-respect. The plans you make and goals you set, are done so with the belief that they are the best courses of action because they are what you have chosen, and you deserve them.
You are able to access your true potential
Your potential for success increases when you’re authentic. Having the confidence to set your own targets without defining yourself against someone else’s idea of success is liberating and empowering.
As you transition from one life goal to the next, your potential expands and you’re able to manage your life and your money in a way that has deeper meaning – both for you and for others.
Authenticity is a valuable asset in your life. You get to share the true you with others. Those who remain in your circle will create a bond that will be deeply fulfilling.